• Cnewq5
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August 15, 2008

Three monkeys

I found this letter I wrote to my sister after Tony’s email outburst [see previous post]. I had thought matters over for two weeks before phoning Pam. It’s fair for say she underreacted to what I told her.

 

So I tried a letter, but her response was to make excuses for her son. Rereading this, I realize that the free year on AOL had expired in May 2000, and I’d then been charged for the next year. In other words, Tony had had almost two years, not one – and still hadn’t managed to change ISP &/or find an alternative payment method.

 

Here’s the letter, which fills in the background to Millennium madness, and also mentions a few other things I’d put up with from my nephew…

August 14, 2008

Millennium madness

This isn’t the first time my nephew Tony has turned on me (but it will definitely be the last, since I will never trust him again). Back in 2001, he did exactly the same thing. I found the old emails, so here they are.

 

A little background… A couple of years before this I allowed Tony to use my credit card to pay for his internet service. He ran up two massive monthly charges before (on my prompting) he contacted AOL & changed to a flat rate tariff. They wouldn’t refund the charges, but gave him a year’s free internet. I told him there was no hurry to pay me back. It’s important to realize this was not about money. After all, if you let someone use your card, you can’t blame anyone but yourself if things go wrong! I just asked him to make sure he found a different ISP &/or payment method before the year was up.

 

But almost one year later – as the time approached when AOL would debit my card again – he hadn’t done anything about it & was ignoring my mails. So I sent him the following email.

 

 

Hi Ant


Is there any reason why you're ignoring my mails? If so, I'd rather we talked/wrote about it.

 

Chris

 

 

Tony’s response was unbelievable…